Here are some questions to ponder before and after you read the rest of this article: *Do you have a best friend? That is, a best friend who is truly a regular part of your life, who helps balance you out and keep you in check? *Do you know at least one of your neighbors?…
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Why moral thuggery IS the root of all evil
No matter your religious / spiritual views, no matter your political affiliation, no matter your cultural roots, no matter your location – a common thread exists through out the world: That common thread is the rampant problem of moral thuggery. What exactly is moral thuggery? It is turning a blind-eye to tyranny, treachery, corruption –…
Why we ALL are to blame for *violence*
Riot violence. Gun violence. MMA violence. Cinematic violence. Video game violence. Street fight violence. Violence, violence, violence. Everywhere, **everyday**. Aggression. Hostility. Anger. Rage. Hate. Dominance. These emotions are often linked to violence. They are embedded in our biological makeup. We are complex beings; we have a wide range of emotions, all of which have their…
Modern women of the West: Why you are struggling to get through to men
It doesn’t necessarily take a social scientist, or generally keen observer of human behavior, to see that men and women have been going through a tirade of interpersonal growing pains for the past couple of generations. Western women now have more opportunities, in a wide variety of arenas, than ever before in human history. In…
Have we gone overboard with personality profiling and labels?
Are you INFJ? Or ENFJ? Or an empath? Or a healer? Or a nurturer? Or a thinker? Or a reader? Or a listener? Or your love language is quality time? Or your personality color is “yellow”? Or green? Or blue? Do we need so many labels? Do we need to be rigidly defined by them?…
Shouldn’t parents be ultimately responsible for the relationship they have with their kids?
In a prior topic, I covered the problems with parents who soapbox what has become an anthemic mantra in the dating world: “My kids are my world and will always be first.” I explained that although it is crucial to raise kids to be productive, contributing members of society who make the most of their…
Is it really still important to the U.S. to be a superpower? And how much does education affect that?
The industrial revolution in the 20th century was a golden child for catapulting the U.S. into superpower stardom. War — despite being the worst, most tragic consequence of humans working against each other instead of with each other — also had a big role to play in humanity. Namely, it pushed the U.S. into aggressively…
MEN: Stop being a *creep* to women
For those of you who have wondered: “When will Cee Vee call out men on their destructive, morally bankrupt behaviors?” Your time has come. We all know the old saying. “If I had a dollar for every time…<fill in the blank>”. Well, at the risk of overusing this already overused expression: If I had a…
Why are we not talking much more about *consciousness* and how it can help spirituality?
The rise of the “spiritual-but-not-religious” movement in recent years has revealed some significant shifts in Western society: More and more people are becoming disenchanted with organized religion (though the reasons are often shaky or based on misinformation). More and more people are searching for truth and meaning in their life. More and more people are…
Why the rhetoric of “My kids are my world and will always be first” wrecks relationships
Whenever I hear or read “my kids are my world and will always be first” — which has become a marching mantra in the Western world of single parenting — my knee-jerk reaction is to say **Get over yourself**. And even by the end of this post, I am going to stand by that same…